Tech Trouble In Tiny Fingers!
Are There Any Dangers In Exposing Your Kids Too Early To Mobile Phones and Technology?
These days, it’s hard to go anywhere without seeing a child holding a phone or tablet—they may be watching cartoons on YouTube (Cocomelon), playing games, or even scrolling through TikTok.
Many Nigerian parents give their children phones to keep them quiet, especially during chores, outings, or while they’re at work (most of us are guilty).
But is it safe?
Are there any risks?
Especially long-term developmental risks?
The short answer is yes. There can be dangers when young children use phones and screens too early or too often.
Let’s break it down in simple terms and consider what you can do to protect your child.
1. Screens Or Smiles?
Children learn how to talk, listen, and connect by spending time with people—not screens.
If a child is always on the phone, they may not get enough real interaction with parents, siblings, or other kids.
This can slow down their development in speech and social skills.
Try this: Instead of handing them a phone, sing songs, play with them, or tell them traditional stories (tales by moonlight style). Or get toys that can engage them and pique their curiosity.
It’s not just fun—it helps them grow and form real bonds with real people.
2. Sleep Problems
Using phones or tablets, especially in the evening, can disturb a child’s sleep.
The bright light from screens can confuse their brain, making it hard for them to feel sleepy at bedtime.
Try this: Avoid giving phones to children one hour before they sleep. Use that time to pray together, read Bible stories, or just talk about their day.
Spend time together before bed, instead of allowing your kids to fall asleep on a phone or tablet screen.
3. Bad Behaviour And Short Attention Span
Some children who spend too much time on screens become more aggressive, restless, or have trouble focusing.
This is especially common when they are constantly exposed to fast-paced cartoons or games.
Try this: Give them other activities like colouring, playing outside, or helping with small chores. These build patience and real-life skills.
4. Phone Addiction Is Real
You may notice your child crying or getting angry when you take the phone away.
This is a sign of screen addiction—and yes, even toddlers can be affected.
Try this: Set clear rules like “no phone during meals,” or “only 30 minutes a day.” Keep the phone out of reach when not in use.
5. Eyes And Posture Problems
Looking at a screen for too long can harm your child’s eyes and lead to poor posture.
You may notice them rubbing their eyes often or sitting hunched over.
By limiting screen time and ensuring they sit properly when using any device, you can protect your child’s eyes and posture. Encouraging breaks and plenty of time to run and play will also contribute to their overall well-being.
So, When Should You Introduce Technology?
Experts suggest waiting until your child is at least 18 to 24 months old before introducing any screen—and even then, only for a short time with your guidance.
For older kids, balance is key.
Educational content in small amounts is okay, but real-life play and learning are far more important.
Final Advice For Nigerian Parents
Technology is part of life—and that’s okay!
But it’s best in small, healthy doses, like sweets or junk food.
Your guidance as a parent or caregiver is crucial. By modelling good habits, setting clear boundaries, and making time for real-world connections, you can make a significant difference in your child’s life.
Your child’s mind, body, and heart will thank you.
Technology is useful, but let it serve you—not the other way around. As parents, we must guide our children with love and wisdom.
We grew up climbing trees, playing outside, and chatting with neighbours.
Let’s not rob our children of those beautiful experiences.
Teach them that phones are not toys, but tools.
Remember, your time, your stories, and your attention are what truly shape your child’s future. By giving them these, you’re providing them with experiences that no screen can replace.
